Love yourself first.

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Loving and trusting yourself is the first and foremost step that makes you a better person and brings quality to your life. It's all about being honest with yourself. If you trust yourself , you do not have to worry about people trusting you. Sacrificing who you are, just because someone has a problem with it, is not worth. 

The second important thing that comes after self love, is not caring about what people say. As soon as you start loving yourself and ignoring what people say, you will know how to live peacefully. When someone hurts you or breaks your trust, it forces you to either blame the world, or to look internally. It forces you to accept that trust and love are always, always blind leaps of faith with the understanding that people will let us down, they will hurt us, and we will likely do the same. 

When someone has broken your trust, don’t focus on adjusting the measure of how you place your attachments and predominantly, don’t just think that you now know the secret to what type of humans are just out to hurt you and which aren’t.

Don't give all of you to ANYONE. You will only lose yourself in the process. Always have space for yourself. Just for you, for your inner peace. Never let anyone enter that little 'me space'.

You can not force someone to love you, care for you and stay in your life. Make yourself so strong, that you don't have to depend on anybody. Nothing in this world is worth your tears.

Your self respect should be your priority. Love yourself first. And you'll see, no one in this world will be able to hurt you or put you down.

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  1. Unknown5 February 2019 at 02:04

    A great piece of writing. Loving yourself is the most important thing, which we all lack a bit. Great job!!

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    1. Tuba Ayyubi5 February 2019 at 06:07

      True! It's something we really need to understand.
      THANK YOU!

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    2. Unknown6 February 2019 at 06:35

      A great piece of adviceπŸ‘πŸ‘

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    3. Tuba Ayyubi6 February 2019 at 07:16

      Thank youu! ☺️

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  2. Unknown5 February 2019 at 02:34

    You made me motivated towards life🌼

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  3. Unknown5 February 2019 at 02:39

    Well written ❤️πŸ‘

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  4. Nischal5 February 2019 at 03:47

    πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

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  5. Unknown5 February 2019 at 04:22

    πŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘ŒπŸ‘Œ

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  6. Anonymous5 February 2019 at 04:53

    Never fails to amuse.❤️

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  7. Unknown5 February 2019 at 07:27

    You always do the best with your writting skills... Love love

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